Wednesday, September 17, 2008

HOW TO ACHIEVE YOUR DREAMS FOR YOUR CHILD AND HELP HIM ACHIEVE HIS TOO.


One of the most common challenges we face as parents is not watching our children grow but helping them fulfill their dreams or living out the dreams we have for them. As a parent you will surely have plans for your kids, you want to give them the best, you want them to live a better life than you did or even achieve more than you did. You will surely want them to have the best of the best, but from childhood to adolescence or from adolescence to adulthood you encounter some hiccups along the way in doing this and this could spoil the perfect plan you once had for your kid or ruin his dreams. Sometimes these obstacles could be caused by peer pressure, youthful exuberance or excessive stubbornness. It could also be caused by trauma loss or even hatred. So how do you deal with it? How do you help get your kid back on track? How do you help him refocus? How do you help him overcome this situation and make him understand the path he is heading. As a parent, you have seen it all, you have passed through this stage or you may even have friends who may have gone through the same things and you know where that road leads to. How do you help your child become what you what him to be. Here are five steps to help you arrive at it no matter how bad the situation maybe.

Step 1: Change you thoughts towards you kid.

Step 2: Change your attitude towards you kid and start acting with open hands of acceptance.

Step 3: Change you beliefs about your kid

Step 4: Focus on what you want to see in your kid and how you want him to be.

Step 5: Open your heart towards him.

Now when you put into practice these five steps, pay close attention to your thoughts, beliefs and focus. Why? This is because your subconscious mind is only going to create your reality based on your beliefs or faith. It doesn’t care if your faith or belief about that person or in the person is good or bad. It only acts on your instructions and your instructions come from your thoughts and beliefs. Another important concept to understanding how these five steps could help you is focus. Following the law of attraction, you attract to yourself whatever you give your focus, attention or energy to. This has been proved right in a million cases. So to achieve maximum results, change your thoughts, increase you faith or beliefs and strengthen your focus. Apply these principles strongly, especially in prayers and in no time you will see changes in your kid you never thought were possible.

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