Wednesday, September 17, 2008

HOW TO OVERCOME THE STRESS OF A STAY AT HOME MOM


Martha is a housewife and a stay at home mom. This lady of the house was in trouble, life was suddenly in shambles one night. Her little kids were running toy cars across the kitchen floor and quarrelling over who had the right of way. There was a cat between her feet purring and rubbing against her ankles. There was a puppy, jumping and devouring her stockings and demanding his cup of milk. What could she do? She still had to peel the potatoes and fix dinner, straighten out the kids, feed the puppy and get the cat off her ankles, lest she should trip and break her neck. It was time to put into practice, all her knowledge, devotion and religion. She did. So they had their meal and they had a joyful grace, a lively conversation and a good laughter to go with it. The puppy was fed, the cat was quiet and the boys were put to bed. Martha knew God was with her and He knew and cared for her. This was her belief.


Martha’s story best describes the situation many stay at home moms find themselves in today. A rather complicated position, especially if you once had a career which you gave up. You would sit and look back at what you left behind, it becomes awful and painful because you can’t go back and you can’t abandon your present situation to go front in pursuit of another career, so you are stuck in between. This awfully frustrating situation, should never get the best of you. As being a stay at home mom is really interesting , you could easily accomplish your household chores in no time and still have enough time for yourself, But how do you arrive at this? How do you deal with the early morning rising and overcome the tension through the day? How do you accomplish your chores for each day and still put up with the stress of dinner with kids running around and pets at your feet? How do you overcome the daily turbulence of being a housewife and be the super mom?


Here are six simple steps you can follow.
Step 1: Form the habit of getting down to business at once.

Step 2: Form the habit of doing the hard unpleasant jobs first.

Step 3: Remain calm and quiet especially within, because power comes from a quiet
mind.

Step 4: Keep well rested

Step 5: Learn to focus

Step 6: Believe in yourself

Practicing and following these six steps will help you overcome and pass through any turbulence successfully. Now when you put into practice these six steps, pay close attention to steps five and six. These two are important concepts to achieving maximum success especially as a stay at home mom and overcoming household stress. Like Martha, you need to put into practice the power of belief and focus. Hold a firm belief that you are not alone and that God is with you and He that put the universe in order is there helping you put your situation together. Hold your belief and focus strongly on it. You will attract to yourself whatever you give your focus, attention and energy to. This is the power of belief and focus and it is the basic law of attraction that has achieved maximum results even in the worst situations.

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